Thriving Through Community and Purpose in the UK
One of my earliest lessons upon arriving in the UK was realizing how much the weather influences daily life. Coming from the warm, tropical climate of Southeast Asia, the UK’s chilly winters initially felt like a shock to my system. The layers of clothing, early sunsets, and the perpetual need for hot tea were all foreign concepts. Over time, however, I grew to appreciate the quiet beauty of misty mornings, the fleeting delight of snow, and the comfort of a cozy scarf.
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| Natural History Museum, London / Photo by B. Halliday |
But the weather was just the beginning. The cultural differences were more profound. I quickly learned that the British sense of humor is often subtle, filled with sarcasm and understatement. At first, I misinterpreted silences as indifference and polite phrases like “That’s interesting” as genuine curiosity. Over time, I have slowly grown attuned to these nuances, realizing they are part of the complex, textured fabric of British society.
In my role at the charity, I work closely with ESEA migrants, many of whom arrive in the UK with dreams of building a better life. Unfortunately, some encounter harsh realities, including modern slavery, gender-based violence, unfair labor treatment and exploitation. These injustices disproportionately affect vulnerable workers, many of whom are unfamiliar with their rights or unable to access support systems.
Our charity exists to bridge that gap. We provide legal support, advocacy, and community programs to help individuals reclaim their dignity and rebuild their lives. From helping a victim of human trafficking secure safe housing to empowering low-wage workers to challenge exploitative employers, our work is about turning pain into progress.
What strikes me most is the resilience and courage of those we help. Despite immense hardship, they show incredible determination to overcome their circumstances. They remind me of why I chose this path: to ensure that no one feels alone or powerless in a foreign land.
One of the most uplifting aspects of living in the UK has been connecting with other ESEA individuals who share a passion for improving lives. The UK has a vibrant ESEA diaspora, and through community events, cultural festivals, and advocacy initiatives, I’ve found a space that feels like home.
These communities aren’t just about cultural preservation—they are thriving hubs of mutual support. I’ve met entrepreneurs, activists, and creatives who are pushing boundaries and challenging stereotypes, showing the richness of our heritage while fighting for equality and justice. Together, we’re building a narrative of resilience and achievement.
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| St. Paul's Cathedral, London / Photo By B. Halliday |
Living in the UK has taught me that thriving is not about avoiding challenges but about confronting them with purpose. As a director, I wear many hats—leader, advocate, mentor—but the most fulfilling moments come when I see the tangible impact of our work. It could be a migrant worker successfully receiving unpaid wages, or a trafficking survivor finding long-term safety and stability. Each success story is a testament to the power of collective effort.
For me, thriving also means being a voice for those who cannot yet speak for themselves. It means working toward a world where no one has to endure exploitation or fear simply because they’re far from home.
My life in the UK, like anyone’s, is a blend of joys and challenges. I’ve learned to navigate a new culture, adapt to a new climate, and work in a demanding but meaningful role. More importantly, I’ve found a way to connect my personal journey with a larger purpose: helping others build lives of dignity and opportunity.
For anyone considering life in a new country, my advice is simple: embrace the challenges, seek out your community, and find a way to give back. Because in doing so, you’ll discover not just a home, but a sense of belonging—and perhaps even a mission that makes every struggle worthwhile.
In this shared journey, we are stronger together. Whether it’s celebrating Lunar New Year in London, advocating for fair wages, or sharing a bowl of steaming pho with newfound friends, I’ve learned that thriving isn’t just about personal success; it’s about lifting others up and building a better future for all.